When it Comes to Men Some Women Have It and You Can Too

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It. . . and You Can Too! Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this: “In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me. They were attentive,... More

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It. . . and You Can Too! Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this: “In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me. They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around. Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying. They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love. Was it me? After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape. So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house? The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner? Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door? I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men. Less