Parenting Tips
Head: Connecting With Your Child
By Jeff Murdock, LMFT, West Ridge Academy
Within the early stages of life, a crucial stage of development begins — the need to
connect or bond with another person.
We call this the “attachment’ stage.
” As...
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Parenting Tips
Head: Connecting With Your Child
By Jeff Murdock, LMFT, West Ridge Academy
Within the early stages of life, a crucial stage of development begins — the need to
connect or bond with another person.
We call this the “attachment’ stage.
” As parents, we
know that babies often cry when they’re hungry, tired or scared.
Our response to these
cues either strengthens or weakens the parent-child relationship.
Continuing to meet a
child’s basic needs, such as feeding, caring or nurturing, strengthens bonds of trust and
comfort, and allows the parent and child to feel more attached.
In other words,
attachment helps us feel safe and not alone.
Teenagers have a similar desire to feel attached.
Although their needs can be harder to
understand and decipher, there is still an underlying need to connect with their parents.
While there are many ways for parents to communicate with their child to establish a
connection, there are also many distractions, both for parents and teens.
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